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Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Tuesday, 10 April 2012

Do nothing but kiss each......

kiss,kissing photos,lifeI remember back when I was in high school—and still a virgin—I was obsessed with making out. Not that I was doing it a ton, but I just loved the idea. Then at some point making out turned into simply a precursor to sex. Sigh. Gone were the days of liplocking with a guy for 30 minutes (shout out to Sam!). I was slightly devastated and I swear to god, I remember thinking, "Will I never just make out with a boy again? Will I never make out with my future husband?". Soon after, I realized how great sex was and this fear was slightly appeased.

But the 15 year old S. still rears her makeout-loving head.

So you can understand why I was so excited for this challenge.

I told D. the plan. (I recommend you do the same since letting him know midway through could find you guilty of blue balling in most states.)

We lay down on my bed and started slow. Kisses with no tongue, just our lips pressed together. Then open mouth, but unlike some of my first kisses, D.'s tongue didn't dart into my mouth.

Then he placed both hands on my cheeks. Swoon. Men, if you're reading this, take note: both hands on the cheek is the fastest way to make a girl melt.

D. got on top of me at this point, but I pushed him off. We had to take this slooow. I leaned over him and started kissing everywhere but his lips. Cheeks, eyelids, nose, neck.

He retaliated by latching on to my lower lips and sucking.

H. O. T.

I definitely felt myself getting turned on so I pressed my body against his. He was definitely packing. But I refused to let that change our course of action.

We started Frenching. Yes, I said Frenching. First, he ran his tongue over my lips length-wise then pried them apart. Totally middle-school dance style!

Once he was in (weird to use that phrase in this blog and not be referring to sex) we totally went at it. Full on heavy gotta-have-you-now, only-one-minute-left-of-seven-minutes-in-heaven making out. He pinned my arms above my head and placed himself over me.

And then, ladies, I'm not embarrassed to say we dry humped. I spread my legs and he rubbed himself against me.

We may have been bending the rules a bit, but it was pretty damn awesome. The kissing continued as we gyrated. And I came close to climaxing, but it didn't happen. D. kept trying to get in my pants, but I resisted and I can tell he found it totally hot.

After what I'm guessing was about half an hour we stopped. Not because we wanted to. But because we had to. Otherwise, the whole thing would have turned into sex. I made a deal with D. that we would put it on pause then come back to it later.

We untangled ourselves from each other and went to the living room, where we watched exactly half an hour of TV. Then it was back to the bedroom where we finished up—doing things I never would have considered doing during a high-school seven minutes in heaven session. You'll have to wait till tomorrow to find out exactly what we did. But here's a hint: D. got 360-degree views of me.

Describe your absolute hottest kiss. And let me know how frequently you and your boyfriend/husband make out without it leading to something more. Have you ever come close to climaxing from dry humping?

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Tuesday, 24 January 2012

9 Unheard-of moan zones!

You may just be whispering into your girlfriend's ear and, surprisingly, find her sighing in ecstasy... your gal may be equally surprised when you get ready for action as she caresses your inner thighs .

Welcome to the special world of pleasure zones. Let's face it, everyone has a button to push, and if you correctly explore these erotic spots in your body, it can assure you and your lover of a memorable sexual high.

"Many of us love to believe that it's only women who possess dozens of pleasure zones which cause excitement when touched, while men just possess one. But the truth is that most men become excited when their partner pays attention to certain special spots beyond the obvious ones. The sensory tips present in these areas are sexually aroused by mere touch, caressing or even fondling. You may not even know where these spots are, but do not fret, for that just makes finding them all the more desirable for both of you," says Vrinda Vohra, a Delhi-based relationship counsellor.

As curiosity is part of our genetic makeup, most men and women remain curious as to what turns their partners on. Which spot can we touch to drive them absolutely crazy? Well then, today's your lucky day because we bring you nine unconventional moan zones...

Pleasure Zone 1 - Luscious lips

Kissing on the lips is often considered as an emblem of affection, symbol of sexual consent and foundation of foreplay; little do people realise that this first step can make or mar a much-planned sex session. "Yes, it's true. If you know how to maneuver your partner by kissing, sucking and biting their lips, it is very possible that this kiss will lead to a lot more than you expected," says 27-year-old Palak Burman

Kissing, licking and nibbling the lips has an equally heady effect on women, as on men. Dr Vrinda gives some tips, "Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with your partner's top and bottom lip and kiss him/her with complete passion. The funda is that don't just kiss the lips - devour them! Experiment and find out just how serious of a zone one's lips can be."

Pleasure Zone 2 - Hairline, forehead and eyelids

Many erogenous zones in men and boys are best activated when the body is completely relaxed. When the head, forehead and eye area are stoked in the right way, they trigger the most amazing feelings. The area above and on the eyelid possesses a great concentration of nerves, and giving a gentle massage along the arch of the eyebrow and onto the temple is a great way to start foreplay.

"Remember that a gentle head massage can do wonders, much more than any foreplay act. Also, the spot between the outer corner of the eye and the cheekbone is very sensitive. Start with placing passionate kisses on that zone and continue wandering your lips or breathing all over your lover's face, concentrating on these zones," explains sexologist Jayanti Mishr.

Highlighting the importance of mental relaxation, Vrinda adds, "Each person's reaction to arousing methods depends entirely on his/her physical and mental makeup at the time of the sexual act. Stimulation of the head and face zones has more to do with cerebral arousal than physical excitement."

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Buy Her a Silk Thong

A gift of lingerie is cliched, right? So twist it. Give it to her when you (seemingly) don't expect sex right then and there.

Pass it under the table at a restaurant and ask her to go to the ladies' room and change into it. "It's a little naughty, but she has a chance to play back," says Joy Davidson, Ph.D., a relationship therapist in Seattle.

Not recommended for a first date

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